When Michael Franti -- a musician, filmmaker and activist -- gets into an argument with his wife, they fall back on one phrase: Do you want to be right, or do you want to be close? “So many arguments are just about proving that my opinion or what I did or what I said was OK. And that what she did or said wasn’t OK,” Franti said. That’s what I signed up for and that’s what you signed up for. Franti and Spearhead have a new album called “Watching The World Go by With You.”Rosen wants to hear from you next. “The Best Advice Show” is a product of Graham Media Group.