ANN ARBOR – After suffering a miscarriage on Sept. 29, Rubina Tahir began the seemingly impossible process that countless women have faced: coming to terms with pregnancy loss. She posted on the Ann Arbor Area Mamas Network - a nearly 9,000-member private Facebook group where local moms regularly seek advice in a safe and nonjudgmental space. “The comments and private messages just started coming in,” said Tahir. Tahir said she searched the group for past posts about miscarriage and was surprised to see that there were only a few. “We need to make it normal and we need to understand that women need to talk about this.”Her post received nearly 200 comments and she received 15 private messages soon after.